[xwiki-users] XEM Installation Question

I am trying to get XEM installed on my shared hosting provider, and am running into some trouble with the MySQL user permissions part. The tutorial says: **** In order for XEM to be able to create new wikis on demand, you will need to give all rights to your database user. For example for MySQL, execute: mysql -u root -e "grant all privileges on *.* to xwiki(a)127.0.0.1 identified by 'xwiki'" **** This command does not work when run on my SSH client. I contacted my hosting provider to ask whether it was possible to assign admin privileges, and they said: "It is not possible to change privileges for a database user. The database uses have the most commonly needed privileges set by default. Instead of creating a user as explained in those instructions, you should just be able to use provide the user of the database you created through your Hosting Control Center." Am I right that this response means that XEM will not install correctly, despite their assurances that I have "commonly needed privileges"? Has anyone had success setting up XEM on a GoDaddy hosting account? If not, it might be time to switch... Thank you, Aaron Hardy