Vincent,
You are my hero. I was editing the JVM settings in /usr/share/jetty9/bin/jetty.sh, but
they were not being used. Once I applied them to /etc/default/jetty9 the memory errors
disappeared. I tested on the current install and then built the whole server from scratch
and the Distribution Wizard finished without any errors and I've been able to work in
the wiki without any issues. The performance is on par with the standalone instance as
well.
The only piece that doesn't seem to be working right is the Distribution Wizard still
starts every time I start XWiki. Is there something I need to do so that doesn't
happen?
Thanks again for the help.
- Jared